Community Help

There are many people and organizations who will help us dads, though. We are not totally alone. Food pantries, churches and some government programs are there to help us. Ask your case worker (DFS) about organizations that are in your area to assist you. BE POLITE NO MATTER HOW UPSET YOU ARE!!! NO ONE IS REQUIRED TO HELP YOU!!!

You must take the reigns up for your own needs. Don't expect sympathy. Father's Rights and Resource Network can help direct you to the resources you need. We are here to help. We have been through what you are going through. We have been where you are right now. Ask, and ye shall receive. Be aware that we only help those who help themselves. We don't do it for you.

Your children need you. It is not their fault. Whatever it is. IT IS NOT THEIR FAULT. Do not bad mouth their mother in front of them. Do not talk about the court cases and problems you are having. Be supportive for them when they are stressed out. THE CHILDREN ARE STRESSED TOO.

Churches have programs and people you can talk to. When you get frustrated, call a church. Tell them what's going on, ask if they have a program where your kids can play while you vent to a priest, or psychologist. 

Hospitals have lists of programs to help you deal with life in every aspect. Call the switchboard and explain what is going on. They are able to direct you as well.

Legal Services of Eastern Missouri can advise you on how to proceed with legal matters (They may charge you $30 if you don't have a job, more if you do. It is based on a sliding scale.) 

We can help you on more specific matters. Just contact us and tell us your story.